How to opt out of what’s not good for you.


Is there anyone alive named Lucifer or Jezebel? Things would be easier if folks were named according to who they really are.  But then, nothing that's bad for us ever appears as itself. It's enticing and it feels good and it's easier to buy into than what's good for us.  Otherwise no one would ever …

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Judging by that judgment…


We judge others more than we think.  We judge when we think or say they did something wrong.  We judge others when we think or say they hurt us.  When we think or say they pissed us off.  When we think or say they're perfect.  We judge others when we do anything other than accept …

Walking in your naturally gifted power


Everyone's got a gift.  It's like Christmas! Maybe it's dance, leadership, business management, singing, medicine, painting, cooking, nurturing, running, inspiring, or teaching.  And these ain't the horrifyingly awkward gifts we give each other on holidays and birthdays and upon retirement... You know, the ones that may or may not fit; might be insulting, offensive, or …

Five people-pleasing behaviors and what they really say about you.


It's much easier to handle danger when you know it's coming.  Warning signs, sirens, smoke and flames give you a chance to prepare and respond.  An ambush or Trojan horse catches you off guard.  We have guards for good reason. When a negative person does something hurtful, the impact and the aftermath are different because …