Choose Love


You've probably heard the sad tales of ridiculous superhuman standards and the multitudes of single humans wookin' pa nub in all the wrong places because of them.  And for the record, I abhor this tendency and am quite aware that even those of us who think we're looking for the right things, sometimes aren't.  I …

Crash diet: How to love yourself Part 1 of 2.


Wow that's a big title. Not really any other way to put it though. Loving ourselves is the single most important compulsion in life... And of course the toughest. Self-love is what allows us to find joy, hope, love, kindness, health. Thing is, there's a lot in the way of this all-important process. How can …

Let go of the toilet seat, already.


Scene: An attractive couple madly in love with each other snuggle on the couch in their living room, enjoying a movie and feeding each other heart-shaped popcorn-chicken nuggets.  Kittens purr at their feet and butterflies flutter past in the waning afternoon sun.  Between powerful bursts from their exceptional sound system the melodious chirping of birds …

“Good” my tushy.


I was reading one of my favorite, hilarious blogs (www.verysmartbrothas.com) about the myth of the good man shortage when an interesting exchange happened.  After my arguably predictable response, peppered with Katt Williams' quotes and references to the amazing man, family and friends in my life... Someone responded with the following statement. "[Figuring out what it …