Unseen


The unseen you is what makes you great.  Your self-care and self-work;  Wrestling with failure and refusal to give up;  Kindness toward your family when you're at your worst;  Sacrifice of and distancing from the people and things who don't spark your best;  Loving confrontation with all that begs us to shrink and hide the …

On true love…


Love is a trusting surrender to the destructive and ultimately reconstructive nature of relationship. In healthy relationships this cycle is balanced, intimate and so fruitful a yearning for this growth process develops. The fruit: Compassion, kindness, humility, responsibility, discipline, patience, gentleness, power, healing, forgiveness, peace, joy.

Daily Reminder


All those parts in the bible where it says: The greatest of all His commandments is love... Never use scripture for debate... Don't quarrel... It ain't hard to love the lovable... Love the unlovable... What's inside the heart matters more than the behavior... Oh, and that part where Jesus' greatness wasn't a list of platitudes but …

Why “The New Trophy Wife” deserves a closer look.


(Dragging out my soapbox 'cause I'm short) Kristen Houghton published an article a few days ago called "The New Trophy Wife" that essentially suggests the new definition of a trophy wife is a woman who's got looks AND brains AND power. Overall, while it's encouraging to see anything that remotely supports women's success and intelligence... It's …